Drama, Love & Relationship

Drama, Love, Relationships.

Its not about whose right, or whose wrong
Its not about whose weaker, or whose strong
Its not about whose innocent, or whose fault
It aint really bout that kind of thing at all
Its not about who does it, who done it, or did it to who
Dont matter if the both of you lose
Its really not bout nothing, cept for me and you

Its all about drama, and love, and 'lationships
And when the going gets tough, you deal with it
And you dont ever, you never walk away from it
You hold on, and be strong
Its all about drama, and trust, and making it
If your somebody, mess up, you take it in
Dont let no body come between you you just stay with it
And hold on and be strong
And Hold on

Its not about the stupid things that we say
We're always saying stupid things anyway
Its not about the secrecy or the lies
Girl everybodies got a secret to hide
Its not about who was it, or was she, whose creeping on who
Wont matter if the both of us lose
Its really not bout nothing, cept for me and you

Its all about drama, and love, and 'lationships
And when the going gets tough, you deal with it
And you dont ever, you never walk away from it
You hold on, and be strong
Its all about drama, and trust, and making it
If your somebody, mess up, you take it in
Dont let no body come between you you just stay with it
And hold on and be strong
And Hold on

Its all about drama, and trust, and making it
If your somebody, mess up, you take it in
Dont let no body come between you you just stay with it
And hold on and be strong
And Hold on

Aint bout your pride
Aint bout your self
Its bout the two of you, and no one else
Aint bout the hurt
Aint bout the lies
Aint bout the crazy things thats running through your mind
Its bout the love thats spose to last and never die

Its all about drama, and love, and 'lationships
And when the going gets tough, you deal with it
And you dont ever, you never walk away from it
You hold on, and be strong
Its all about drama, and trust, and making it
If your somebody, mess up, you take it in
Dont let no body come between you you just stay with it
And hold on and be strong
And Hold on

 Semuanya tentang cinta, yang kita merasakan "sayang yang terlalu dalam" sayang yang lahir dari hati yang sakit dan mengharapkan satu nafas cinta yang baru. Selalunya apabila seseorang itu gagal dalam percintaan yang pertama, dia akan mengambil masa rehat yang cukup lama bagi mengubat luka lara hati. Dan ada juga yang terlalu pantas untuk mencari seseorang yang lain dengan terlalu cepat supaya tak terasa atas "kehilangan" yang baru berlaku. Dalam sesebuah hubungan cinta itu pergaduhan dan perselisihan faham itu sering terjadi dan salah seorang dari pasangan itu tidak diberi peluang untuk explain kejadian sebenar yang berlaku kerana pasangan mereka mengambil mudah dengan menuduh tanpa memberi ruang untuk "sebuah penjelasan."

 

 Bilamana cinta itu terus digelar sebagai dusta, nilai kepercayaan itu hanya seumpama senipis bawang, yang halus dan senang untuk terkoyak, dan bilamana bahagian yang nipis itu tidak boleh dibaikpulihkan ianya akan menjadi seolah "tergantung."

 Hubungan yang tergantung pula, antara dua iaitu bisa diselamatkan atau tidak, bergantung pula kepada dua jiwa yang sedang berperang dengan hati mereka, antara mahu atau tidak. Perkara seperti ini selalunya akan mengundang kepada sebuah pergaduhan yang bersifat "berpanjangan" dan tak bertemu jalan pengakhiran yang baik.

 Sekadar nasihat melalui pengalaman, setiap permasalahan bawalah berbincang dan cuba untuk berterus-terang. Ya, itu hanya semudah kata dan bukan semudah perbuatan. Untuk kebaikan bersama berbincang dan semasingan belajar untuk support each other. Sepertimana cinta itu kuat dan baru pada mulanya, janganlah diakhiri hanya dengan permasalahan yang tiada jalan penyelesaian. Jika sayangkan pasangan anda, selalulah bersikap dan bersifat positif. Fikirkan hak untuk bersama dalam jangka masa yang panjang. Good luck!

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Kita semua rasa.

Losing =  emptiness

Apabila kau hilang someone yang kau sayang, mesti akan ada sekelompok manusia yang hidup sekeliling kau berteriak umpama mereka faham apa yang kau rasa. Time tu juga tiba-tiba muncul manusia yang  berteriak lantang seolah-olah mereka tahu kau ni jenis orang yang macam mana, dan tahu strategi yang kau akan guna untuk settlesemuanya.

Tetapi, dalam kelantangan mereka berkata umpama mereka peduli tentang semua benda. Tak ada seorang pun yang jujur dengan kau, bukan tipu, cuma tak jujur. Percayalah, dan aku rasa kau sendiri pun tahu. Tak ada seorang manusia pun yang betul-betul faham perasaan kau, yang tahu keadaan kau bila kau melepet kesepian dekat rumah sensorang, yang peduli bila kau terlentang atas katil meratap langit yang terbentang, tak ada siapa tahu macam mana duka lara kau rasa bila kau menangis menjerit sensorang.

Kau ingat mereka peduli?

Tak ada siapa peduli.

Aku pasti.

Mati hati ni sebenarnya lebih kurang je dengan mati jiwa. Cuma bila mati hati, kau masih diberi peluang untuk teruskan hidup dan bina segalanya semula, itu bezanya.

Bila kehilangan, mesti akan ada proses pembentukan semula. Mencari semangat untuk bangun dengan gagah memapah segala kudrat dan kehendak yang ada untuk mengutip sisa-sisa cebisan yang berderai. Memang makan masa, ada yang mengambil masa dua tiga minggu, ada juga yang berbulan-bulan dan bertahun lamanya. Bila dah lepas stage meratap, bila kekuatan dah ada dan segala kudrat dah dihimpun bersama. Kau sendiri akan bangun tersenyum dan merasa sebenarnya dunia ni tak ada lah sekejam mana yang kau, aku, dan kita semua sangka. Tetapi, nanti, akan ada benda yang mendorong kau mengenang kenangan lama.

Aku pasti, pasti ada.

Kau fikir kau dah terima rasa kehilangan tu, tapi satu benda jadi.

Puff!

Umpama magis, sekelip mata sahaja.

Buat kau rasa kau kehilangan benda yang sama. Sama macam dulu yang kau rasa.

Ramai orang percaya bilamana kita dah berjaya lompat keluar dari satu dimensi yang penuh kesedihan kita dah berjaya lari dari luka lama. Sebab apa? Sebab orang kata,

“Kenapa nak ingat luka lama, bila yang suka dah ada depan mata?”.

Tetapi kita lupa, tiap yang terbuka tu perlu ditutup semula. Kau takkan mampu baiki semua luka dalam satu masa. Macam mana kau belajar menjadi manusia dari sekecil bayi sampai sebesar hari ini, macam itu juga lah kau perlu bangun dan belajar memperbaiki hati. Langkah demi langkah. Kau takkan berjaya tutup semua luka bila dah ada suka depan mata, tapi kau akan kutip satu persatu cebisan jiwa yang kau hilang dan cantumkan semula bila tiba masa.

Kau akan rasa mati hati berkali-kali, tapi sakit tu kau akan rasa berkurang sedikit demi sedikit saban hari.

Suka dan duka tu sebenarnya satu benda yang saling berkait, kau takkan dapat salah satu tapi kau akan rasa dua-duanya sekali. Kau nak suka? Kau kenalah rasa dukanya. Tapi ingatlah, bilamana kau cuba tempuh saat kehilangan jangan cuba berlagak seperti kau dah cukup kuat untuk hadap semua sakit tetapi cuba belajar untuk kuatkan hati. Set kan minda kau sendiri yang mana bila orang yang kau sayang mati dalam jiwa, tak semua benda dalam dunia ni mati bersama dia. 

Menangislah semahunya, meratap lah bagai gila dan ambil masa seberapa lama mana pun yang kau ada. Fikirlah, dalam kau menangis cuba berusaha membaik pulihkan jiwa dan keadaan, akan ada manusia lain dalam masa yang sama yang sedang tersungkur terjelepuk jatuh dan menahan kesakitan sebab kehilangan.

Dalam menempuh hari yang mendatang, pasti akan ada hari kau hilang orang yang kau sayang, kau patah hati. Kau kena tahu yang kau takkan mampu lenyapkan semua luka dalam kotak masa yang kau ada sebab kau cuma manusia biasa. Kau bukan adiwira. Kau tak ada superpower.

Semua yang jadi, bersebab. Kau takkan dapat jawapan terus menerus kepada setiap persoalan. Cuma simpan rasa percaya, dan jaya tu akan datang sendirinya. Dunia takkan bentangkan semua dan suap kau dengan jawapan kepada soalan yang kau hamburkan, tetapi dunia akan mengajar kau cara untuk mencari tiap langkah kepada jawapan.

Dunia tak kejam macam yang kita sangka.

Mungkin dalam tiap kemanisan, pasti ada kelukaan.

Tetapi jangan lupa, dalam luka tak mustahil ada manisnya.

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To the girls who are tired being so pathetic - this is for you.

Hey you sweet girls,

Maybe you got carried away with what is revolving around you. Your overboard feelings, your numb heart and worst – how you crave for his attention. You realise you can be so pathetic sometimes, you’re the one who initiates the conversation every single time, you’re the one who makes plan to let the fire flares again between both of you – you did everything and sometimes you feel fucked up and thought why it has to be only you? Some unlucky nights, you found yourself staring at the pitch black sky and thought about everything – about letting go – about how pride less you were – about how fool he is - but damn, you are too in love to let anything go. You’re afraid of the possibility.

I know you are walking through this ridiculous stuff. But listen up to me; you gotta live with the flow. If you insisted to live against the flow, yes you can try. Try if you are confident it will work, otherwise - letting go is the best option. Maybe the time for you to be so pathetic has comes to the end. Chin up, and be secure of yourself. Be content. Live your happy life and don’t get it ruined by someone who doesn’t deserve your pretty self. If someone loves you, you will notice it. You don’t have to put that much effort, just to make him express his feelings. It’s not your part, it’s his. 

If he wants you to be in his life, he will put you there. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot, keep that in mind.

Image courtesy of Google.

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MUET Speaking Test : Tips and Tricks

Assalamualaikum wbt and a very good day readers.

As I said before, I would like to share some tips and tricks for MUET Speaking Test. These are based on what I studied before the test.

TASK A

1. Prepare about 3 reasons to elaborate your point.

2. Present only 2 of your reasons (choose the best). If you have time, you may speak about the third reason.

3. Make sure you make conclusion of your point. It’s easy actually, just read again the task given. (e.g In conclusion, I would like to state again that fast food outlet provides job opportunities to young people. Thank you.)

4. Make sure you DON’T finish up your talk before time (2 minutes).

5. For task A, you MUST agree with the point given to you.

6. If you are the last candidate, it is an advantage as you have most time to prepare, but make sure you listen to what other candidates talk too!

7. If you are the first candidate, don’t worry, even you have a short time to prepare, you may add some points during task B. It is an advantage too as the mark given for task A and task B is seperated.

TASK B

1. For task B, you should choose which point is the best and agree with. Numbering the best to the worst point is a good effort.

2. It is not compulsary for you to agree with the point given to you in task A.

3. Make sure you do not leave behind the discussion. If it is looks like you are not given opportunity to talk, just interupt the discussion at the correct time.

4. If you want to interrupt, make sure you use good language.

5. If you have finish up your speak, just pass it to other candidate. (e.g How about you, candidate C? Do you agree with me?)

6. It is not compulsary for the first candidate to start on the discussion, but it is an advantage if you start the discussion. The person that start the discussion is acting as Master of Ceremony (MC).

7. It is better if MC to state the conclusion, but others can do it so also.

BOTH TASK

1. Make sure you talk loudly so that the examiners and other candidates can hear what you are talking about.

2. Do make eye contact with others. Act like you are not reading the text.

3. Use a very good language. Do not be rude. Use the magic words like thank you, excuse me, please and others.

List of Useful Language

TASK A

1. A very good morning I bid to one and all.

2. Good morning to the examiners and all my fellow candidates.

3. The situation I have been given is…

4. According to the situation…

5. Based on the situation given…

6. I have 3 reasons to justify my point.

7. First and foremost,…

8. Firstly/Secondly,…

9. My second point is…

10. Another reason is…

11. Finally,…

12. Lastly,…

13. Last but not least,…

14. Furthermore/Moreover/In addition,…

15. Therefore/Hence/Thus,…

16. However,…

17. Other than that,…

18. On the other hand,…

19. Conversely,…

20. Consequently,…

21. Subsequently,…

22. In contrast,…

23. For example/For instance,…

24. Take for example,…

25. … and so on/many more/ others.

26. In conclusion/As a conclusion,…

27. In short/In a nutshell,…

TASK B

1. Let’s kickstart this discussion by starting with..

2. Allow me to begin…

3. May I begin by saying…

4. That’s a great idea!

5. I see your point!

6. That’s an interesting perspective.

7. I like your suggestion.

8. Indeed, I do see your point of view but I still feel that…

9. I concur with your point of view.

10. I’m sorry but I disagree.

11. I’m afraid I have to disagree with your idea.

12. I don’t see eye to eye with you.

13. That’s not a good idea/suggestion.

14. I beg to differ.

15. I’m sorry for interrupting but…

16. Excuse me, may I interrupt please.

17. Pardon me for interrupting but..

18. Could you please hear me out?

19. So what do you think, Candidate X?

20. How about your point of view?

21. Candidate X, what is your opinion?

22. Does anyone agree with me?

23. Why don’t we consider the other points?

24. I’m sorry I don’t understand, can you please elaborate again?

25. In conclusion, ALL OF US agree that… (If all agree)

26. To conclude, MOST OF US agree that… (If the number of agree is higher than disagree)

27. In a nutshell, SOME OF US agree that… while the rest prefer… (If the number of agree is equal to the number of disagree)

28. As time is running out, it seems that ALL OF US can’t seem to agree on a single point so… (All have different point to agree)

29. That’s the end of this discussion, thank you.

ATTIRE

Hmm, I just wonder about this thing too before get into the exam hall. It is stated in the examination slip that you have to wear appropriate attire. So, please wear a suitable suit. It is just like you want to attend an interview session.

For male, please wear business shirt (kemeja) either long sleeve or short sleeve. Long dark slack pants. Tie is not compulsary. Dark socks and shoes. Neatly brushed hair. No additional accessories like earrings, necklace and others. Watch is allowed.

For female, I am not so sure, but the most famous interview attire in Malaysia of course is Baju Kurung. That is the best choice for female I think. But if you like to wear a business attire, please make sure it is not sexy attire like short skirts.

Further information, you may refer to this link : http://www.seekingsuccess.com/articles/art166.php

LIST OF USEFUL LINKS

1. Muet My Way! (http://muetmyway.blogspot.com/)

2. Come Sokmo : Tips Cemerlang MUET (Speaking Test) (http://wherearepeace.blogspot.com/2010/10/tips-cemerlang-muet-speaking-test.html)

3. Majlis Peperiksaan Malaysia (http://www.mpm.edu.my/) <-- get the overview format over here!

4. MUET Speaking Test Video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JuHjBS8v1xY)

5. Good English Essay (http://goodessays.blogspot.com/2006/10/muet-speaking-past-years-questions.html)

Other links, you just google them.(http://www.google.com.my/search?q=MUET+speaking+test&sourceid=ie7&rls=com.microsoft:en-my:IE-SearchBox&ie=&oe=&rlz=1I7ADFA_en)

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Makeup Tips for Teens: 8 Beauty Tips Every Girl Should Know

Your teenage years can feel like both the best and most stressful time of your life. Balancing high school, extracurricular activities, friends and events can seem overwhelming, yet exhilarating at the same time. It’s also the period where dabbling in makeup comes in full swing, and with that in mind, I want to share my best makeup tips for teens.

There’s a lot to know when it comes to makeup and beauty, so don’t fret if you feel overwhelmed. If you’re on the hunt for fool-proof makeup tips, I’ve rounded up 9 beauty tricks every girl should know!

1.  Simple Everyday School Makeup Routine by Brooke McNally
 
If you’re just getting into makeup and want a look that is light and not overdone, check out this tutorial. She uses a combination of foundation, concealer and blush for her face. And sticks to a simple eye makeup routine, finished off with a cat eye. This routine will keep you looking fresh and awake, and it’s quick and easy to do right before school!


2. Curl Your Lashes Before Mascara 

Whenever I see someone curling their lashes with mascara on, I cringe. However, it’s not so obvious when you are a teen. If you curl your lashes when you already have mascara on, it’s much more likely to clump and ruin your mascara job.

Instead, use a curler such as The Brilliant Beauty Eyelash Curler to create voluminous lashes pre-mascara.  You can even heat up the curler under your hair dryer (keep it to about 3 seconds and make sure it’s not too hot by testing it on your arm) for a better curl.

3. Don’t Forget to Prime

Priming your skin is one of the best things you can do before putting on your makeup. It sets a smooth base for your makeup and evens out your skin tone for a flawless canvas. It also hydrates the skin, while at the same time reducing oil and shine. The Smashbox Oil Free Foundation Primer is ideal for sensitive, acne-prone skin, so will work wonders for any skin type.

4. Makeup Tips for Girls with Glasses by uwodoo
 
It can be a struggle to figure out what makeup will look good with your glasses. This tutorial will teach you what makeup to wear under your specs, and even shows you how to accentuate your eyes. She explains the importance of keeping your face makeup simple so that you don’t have to worry about makeup caking onto the nose ridge of our glasses. She also shows you how to fill in your eyebrows and do your eye makeup to fit with your frames.

5. Moisturizing is Key

Moisturizing your skin pre-makeup is essential for a healthy, glowing complexion. It should be your number one priority as it keeps your skin from becoming dry and dull. It can also lead to more vulnerable skin as a good moisturizer creates a protective barrier. Without moisturizing, your makeup is more likely to look cakey and your skin may become tight and itchy.

For all these reasons, a proper moisturize is extremely important. If you have acne-prone skin (as most teenagers do) try an oil-free product such as Neutrogena Oil Free Moisturizer for soft, smooth skin.

6. Eye Cream for The Win 

Never underestimate the power of a good eye cream. Your under eye area is the only spot on your face that doesn’t create its own moisture, so it’s essential to keep it nourished. Without under eye cream, your concealer is more likely to flake off under your eyes.
Eye cream will make your eyes look more awake and less dull. Clinique All About Eyes Cream is one of my favorites!

 

7. Bold Makeup Routine for Teenagers by Shanice Slatter
 
Every girl needs bold makeup once in a while, whether you have a fancy holiday event or want to glam it up for prom night. This makeup tutorial is simple, yet makes a gorgeous impact. The bold lip and cat eye are very sophisticated and the gold eye makeup is trendy as it gets. Using products such as the NYX Jumbo Eye Pencil and the Kat Von D Liquid Lipstick in Lolita, this makeup look is absolutely stunning.

 

8. All About Concealer

If your teenage skin is like mine was in high school, concealer will be your best friend. A quality concealer can help cover pesky blemishes and red spots that you’d rather not walk around with. Concealer should match your skin tone and be set with a loose powder such as Sacha Buttercup Powder.

Pro tip: Dab concealer on the spots you want to cover. It will work much better than wiping it, which will take away all your hard work. Blend with your finger and start off light. You can add more if you need.

These makeup tips for teens are key for a fresh, radiant and gorgeous look. Follow the tips and tutorials to step up your makeup game and feel more confident in your own skin!
 

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